don't let your past define you .....

Some say the past is who we are as it helps to define us, but I believe the past shouldn’t be what defines us but what guides us and propels us towards a better tomorrow/future. In that if something didn’t work, again I would not say; ‘count your losses’ but I would say my friend “take your winnings and all the worth while gains you have salvaged and move on! Do not try to dwell in the past ‘wondering what if’ as doing so you can end up loosing out on future prospects!

Here I will dispense some advice my friend stop torturing yourself and being reckless with your heart why seek to dwell on what ‘was?’ Understand that people come and people go, such broken past and the present/future are incompatible, and so if introduced they can never get along, they will evidently collide; and when everything comes crumbling it might just be too late. So just take all the worth while charms from the haunting of your past and move on giving the future a fair chance to happen, do not allow the ghost of your past to have power over you, DO NOT ALLOW THE SPIRIT OF YOUR PAST TO DICTATE YOUR FUTURE!!!

Accept certain truths the past is not ‘what should be’ or ‘what should have been’ it as already happened hence GONE!!! It really didn’t work for a valid reason, so get on with your life/lives and stop dwelling in the past. Stop toying with life’s natural cycle by living your life in reverse by constantly delving into the past. INSTEAD TRY LIVING, APPRECIATING AND DEDICATING YOUR ‘PRECIOUS TIME’ TO THE PRESENT, HELPING TO SHAPE YOURSELF A FAVOURABLE FUTURE!!! As while the past may have influenced the present, you are responsible for the future!