Tuesday, 15 November 2016

PLEASE DON`T TAKE MY SON AWAY FROM ME





Recently in the media in UK there is a stabbing every week apparently they been over 9000 stabbing cases in London this year imagine of the cases that are not reported.

Today I visit a friend who lost her son to a brutal stabbing and so much go through my head as a mother.
My son means the world to me and I get flashbacks to when I was pregnant.
I was pregnant for 6 months and 3 weeks with my son, I was sick everyday till the day I give birth, I couldn't eat for four months I was on 4 to 6 bags a day of been injected into me as my food. I vomit every day till i bleed for two week. finally my son was born I felt a relief of having my wonderful baby boy.
My son was born healthy and I was happy then he had severe ezema and could not breath properly for two year, my son was one when he had his first operation mind you his skin was bleeding everyday and I had stay up to make sure he was breathing. I remember going hospital a few times in the middle of the night, on top of this I remember social service coming to my house because they felt I was taking him to the hospital to often. I kicked them out and asked them to read the hospital reports before coming to my house, a child not breathing is a big deal no I will not stay home.
The older my son got the easier things was ... after his second operation his breathing was better. I thank God everyday for bringing my son through it all. I had amazing support from his dad and my family and few friends.
Having a child will make you lose friends because they don`t understand what you going through and you don`t lose friends you just mentally grow up quicker, going through a child not breathing and a friend comes and say they don`t know what to wear to go out its just not the same.
As a mum I went through so much with my son for someone to take him away from me it would not only tear me apart but break me inside out. Please speak to your kids about stabbing and violence, how to deal with and were to get help. Taking another child's life is like reaping a mums heart out. stop the violence London.
You dont know what a parent has to go throught to bring their child into this world so please stop the violence.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3745411/Fatal-stabbing-teenager-south-London-linked-two-knife-deaths-capital-year.html
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/1892772/wood-green-stabbing-pool-of-blood-on-pavement-is-the-gruesome-aftermath-of-multiple-stabbing-which-left-a-man-in-his-20s-seriously-injured-in-north-london/
http://www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/poplar-stabbing-man-stabbed-outside-east-london-chicken-shop-in-front-of-horrified-witnesses-a3389651.html




Recently in the media in UK there is a stabbing every week apparently they been over 9000 stabbing cases in London this year imagine of the cases that are not reported.

Today I visit a friend who lost her son to a brutal stabbing and so much go through my head as a mother.
My son means the world to me and I get flashbacks to when I was pregnant.
I was pregnant for 6 months and 3 weeks with my son, I was sick everyday till the day I give birth, I couldn't eat for four months I was on 4 to 6 bags a day of been injected into me as my food. I vomit every day till i bleed for two week. finally my son was born I felt a relief of having my wonderful baby boy.
My son was born healthy and I was happy then he had severe ezema and could not breath properly for two year, my son was one when he had his first operation mind you his skin was bleeding everyday and I had stay up to make sure he was breathing. I remember going hospital a few times in the middle of the night, on top of this I remember social service coming to my house because they felt I was taking him to the hospital to often. I kicked them out and asked them to read the hospital reports before coming to my house, a child not breathing is a big deal no I will not stay home.
The older my son got the easier things was ... after his second operation his breathing was better. I thank God everyday for bringing my son through it all. I had amazing support from his dad and my family and few friends.
Having a child will make you lose friends because they don`t understand what you going through and you don`t lose friends you just mentally grow up quicker, going through a child not breathing and a friend comes and say they don`t know what to wear to go out its just not the same.
As a mum I went through so much with my son for someone to take him away from me it would not only tear me apart but break me inside out. Please speak to your kids about stabbing and violence, how to deal with and were to get help. Taking another child's life is like reaping a mums heart out. stop the violence London.
You dont know what a parent has to go throught to bring their child into this world so please stop the violence.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3745411/Fatal-stabbing-teenager-south-London-linked-two-knife-deaths-capital-year.html
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/1892772/wood-green-stabbing-pool-of-blood-on-pavement-is-the-gruesome-aftermath-of-multiple-stabbing-which-left-a-man-in-his-20s-seriously-injured-in-north-london/
http://www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/poplar-stabbing-man-stabbed-outside-east-london-chicken-shop-in-front-of-horrified-witnesses-a3389651.html

Wednesday, 21 September 2016

Inspire Her



NEW PROJECT ... INSPIRE-HER

Helping women in the Caribbean who cannot access sustainable hygiene products. Mentally challenge women, women with a disability and poor ladies. Every one counts and deserve to fell like a lady.


Hygiene Kit



Soap
Nickers
Bras
Sanitary Pads





If anyone know of any companies or someone wishing to donate please contact me bocasher_henry@yahoo.co.uk
Thank You In advance

Monday, 18 April 2016

THANK YOU


Grateful for life experiences .....
Thanking God for lessons in life
For giving us parents who encourage us to be who we are.
read this lovely article about me  ....
thank you


www.mycaribbeanscoop.com/st-lucia/st-lucian-born-bocasher-henry-is-on-a-mission

Tuesday, 5 April 2016

Congratulations Mrs Anita ...

Weekend went by and I have to say I am completely in love with my friends and their dedication to strive in life. When I was younger I remember my dad having a conversation with me about the friends I keep. Don't worry dad my friends are a reflection on who I am today, they help install in me a sense of love and ambition. .... Weekend pass I had two amazing friends got married one in St-Lucia which I could not make and one in UK . I feel the need to explain and talk about this friend ....
Anita what can I say you are an amazing inspiring individual thanks God I meet such an amazing person like you in my life. They are so many words to describe  you attentive, brave, caring, cheerful, considerate,   empathetic, faithful, forgiving, funny, generous, gentle, giving, good listener, heartfelt, honest,  kind, loving, loyal, nice, optimistic, punctual, reliable, responsible, sensitive, sincere, sweet, sympathetic, thoughtful, trustworthy, truthful, warm, warm-hearted and wonderful.

I thank God for you I meet an amazing individual like you and will forever be in my heart, your friendship has mean so much to me over the years. I must admit I love standing next to you ( taller).... your wedding day was magical, I shared a tear because I know the challenges and the times I trouble you about setting down and to think you got there before me lol lol.



My emotions was playing tricks on me, not long ago we were having dinner and you was trying to give me a wedgie ... Every-time I have a business idea you come and give me constructive advice. You always have a smile on your face come rain or sun. You are truly a friend and I talk for Linda and I when I say thank you for being a friend, thank you for always been there when we need you. You are truly and inspiration to me your husband is a lucky man to have you. keep shining your light and setting an example to others like you always do. I love you forever my sister, my friend Mrs Anita Ansa xx
I pray that the ring of love surrounding you always remains and keeps your smiles intact. Wish you a very happy married life.