Thinking Out Loud

Thinking out loud ......

I woke up this morning with a smile on my face, thinking why? but life have a way of surprising us with the little things. Do I always wake up smiling and why am I smiling? the reality of the matter is that I am waking up feeling loved and safe. I try my hardest to think when did this started, life has a way of sending people into your life at the right time. I remember reading a quote recently saying do not allow the changes in your life be determined by what people expect or did to you. the best catalyst for change is when your heart declares you deserve better. you deserve to be happy and you deserve a beautiful life. you are changing not because you are settling. you are changing because you want to realize the best version of you.
A beautiful life depends on what makes me smile in the morning from a person to a feeling. life is beautiful simply by doing what I love to do and having the people around me spreading their gratitude towards me.
I choose to open my heart and start a new journey in my life because life is a process you live and you learn. you can accept life many miracles and wake up every morning smiling.

Changes
Changes  has played an important part in my life I had to accept many of the changes to understand its the greatest thing that could ever happen to me.
I change the way of thinking and learning to accept that people are different. I change the way I date because I was so stuck in my ways of thinking but keep repeating the same patterns. I change me for the person that I am, I need to feel lighter and let go of any pain in my life and concentrate on becoming the person I want to be.
Through my life stages I have come to my conclusion love is the key to happiness, I learn to accept it and look forward to it, I love just having that feeling of love.
when I woke up with a smile it was all to do with love .... when I smile its because I felt something, I woke up releasing that love.
I just hope I wake up everyday like this .... love is inside all of us what we choose to do with it counts.

Signs you are Disrespecting Yourself

Signs you Disrespecting Yourself

You must be the best version of you and always giving yourself the same respect we demand of others. Respecting our selves is important to living the truth.

Surrounding yourself with bad company
Its hard to be our authentic selves when you hang around people that do not appreciate and share our believes and values that help promote our true selves.

Becoming their doormat
The problem with making others happy is that we usually end up leaving them wanting more as a result we create a greater void on the inside.

Overseeing outside attention
The only attention that truly matters is the attention we give ourselves. stop looking for outside validation.
Be true to who you are and what you are feeling. we are only human to have feelings and emotions being more open about it is only normal.

Setting records straight
No one wants to start any kind of conflict, its easier to let things go but its important to set records straight painting a clear and accurate picture is a sign of respect.

Feeling guilty for being right
Its important to remember seeking advice is only advice. wither we are giving or receiving it should not be personal. Just doing what is right for you is all that matters.

Agreeing with what others say to not offend them
Our opinion matters if someone is offended by your honestly and opinions they are not seeking advice

Pretending to be someone else
Sometimes we all feel the need to impress others but staying are true self is always better. if we aren't good enough for them, the truth is they not good enough for us to begin with.

Saying yes to things that are not important

Respect your time and energy by doing things with people that matter.

Quotes to make you believe in Yourself

Quotes to make you believe in Yourself 

“Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no help at all.” –Dale Carnegie

“The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.” – Steve Jobs

“A man who conquers himself is greater than one who conquers a thousand men in battle”. – Buddha

“Don’t be pushed by your problems; be led by your dreams.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Magic is believing in yourself; if you can do that, you can make anything happen.” – Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe

“Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle.” – Chistian D. Larson

“I am the greatest; I said that before I even knew I was.” – Muhammed Ali

“Stop beating yourself up. You are a work in progress, which means you get there a little at a time. Not all at once.” – Unknow

“All our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them.” –Walt Disney

“If you want to achieve greatness stop asking for permission.” –Anonymous

“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” ? Helen Keller

“The reason most people never reach their goals is that they don’t define them, or ever seriously consider them as believable or achievable. Winners can tell you where they are going, what they plan to do along the way, and who will be sharing the adventure with them.” –Denis Waitley

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ? Maya Angelou

“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.” – J.K. Rowling