I am Free (poem)

I am like a butterfly that floats in the wind
to the human eye
my movements look aimless
I weave in and out
up and down
like that butterfly
only I know my true purpose
on this journey I shall explore
and set myself free
for flight
like that butterfly in the sky
pretty colours of blue and pink
mixed together in rarity
but with natural precision
I open my heart to all
Unlike previous attempts
I shall dwell in that love too
for I am the love that shines out
therefore I will shine that love back within
the clouds form in perfect formation
the tears of life
they still come
but they are the blessings
that heal all my previous unattending dressing
I walk hand in hand my human body, my sprit and my inner child
Seeking the secrets apparent and hidden amongst all nations’

Think Positive

There is so much negative news, media, and comments at the moment and it is easy to see the future as being a very dark place, but I feel that this is giving too much power to people that have a interest in keeping us all scared.
 life is an amazing and incredible gift, and if we spend all our time wishing it were different then we trash every moment that we have on this wonderful  planet.


For instance: If you think you are bad with money, you will be. If you think you are useless, you will be. If you are determined that the world owes you, it will. Take a moment and examine or watch your thoughts about yourself and your reality. Are they empowered, positive, life affirming and empowering thoughts? Or are they destructive, limiting and self-defeating? In this time it is very easy to be weighed down by the mind and find yourself spiralling into a very dark place indeed.

There is a way up. It is simple and effective. Each time you tell yourself something negative like I am bad with money or there is not enough, I cannot do anything right, I am fat, I hate my … etc, cut in as quickly as possible with soothing words. Stop the negative spiral by taking control as an adult and bring reassurance, stability and praise. It is amazing how quickly this changes the patterns.

Another effective tool is to use affirmations. I am enough, the universe supports me, I have enough, life is good, I love my work, and so on. These sentences, compiled as a list and read in the morning can make a huge difference to your daily outlook on life. I have a long list that I read each day and it really does make a difference. I also refuse to get out of bed until I have thought of at least 5 things that I am really grateful for.

I know I may be preaching to the converted, but as they always say: Teach what you most need to know.
stay positive its rewarding.
Have a wonderful weekend

its only an itch ...... just saying

Why do men always think they in control when it comes to sex, you call it a one night stand some of us call it itching a spot.

As a woman i am a strong believer in doing things my way, if I wanted I would.

But why are women called names just because she had and itch ....

just because she felt like ......

Any woman who chooses to sleep with a man, she can she is a grown woman , she pay her bills she takes care of her kids and sometimes she just have and itch .....

ladies let it be told you have and itch then itch it .....

who cares what someone else thinks they not the one with the itch

Everyone do what they want in their own time.

Just to let some men know when you meet a women before you think of calling her any names lets just say she was using you without you knowing.

I have seen some men actually go out their way to pretend they don't know the women, grow up men, its only a itch.

Keep telling yourself women don't do it

Keep calling us names because it was an itch

Keep blanking us on the road pretending you don't associate with that kind of women

Keep telling your friends she was easy because she did it the first time

Keep saying all these things like your family don't do it to, keep it up cause it will never stop ...

secrets to men we all have itches and we choose who we allow to itch it for us.

so when you somewhere and you walked up to a woman and you thinking damn she is sexy, she has already thought should I or is he worth it ....

ITS ONLY AN ITCH JUST DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY

standards

Standards.......some of us have higher standards than others.Personally i don't think that u should settle for less than what u think u deserve in anything, that goes for life and love..relationships or at work. If u think u deserve better then by all means make it happen. It took me damn near half my life to learn this one life lesson, but what i can say is that it is a valuable lesson learned and i will never forget it.

Think about what u want out of life and in love this day and admonish yourself to get it. Always know and believe that u are worth everything that u need and want.

WHAT ARE YOUR STANDARDS LADIES?..................

MY HOME IS WERE MY HEART IS

My home is a sanctuary of love and understanding.
Home is where the heart is a place where family, friends, and visitors share from hearts of love.
The place where we live becomes a home when we fill it with love. We do this by being love that builds up and supports, understands and is compassionate, forgives and accepts forgiveness. We do this and even more as we live from the love of God within our hearts.
Selling or buying a home, or coming together as a new family, we consecrate each room as a place where love abides and each person as an expression of love. Homes are built one brick, block, and board at time. With our homes as sanctuaries of love and understanding, our relationships are built one loving thought, word, and action at a time.

I am loving my family more and more daily, my home is were my heart is.

YOUR HOME IS WHAT YOU BUILD 

I love my perfection to be imperfect ....

I love that my legs, and arms are not equal.

I admire my ability to show my weakness.

To wear my emotions on my sleeve.

I am pleased that I am not always happy.

Because if I was, how would I feel alive?

I love my nappy roots, because with straight ends there is no adventure.

My skin may not be flawless but each curve and tone makes me unique.

My vision may not be 20/20 but it makes me feel stronger because I can still see what real.

I love my mixed emotions, they give me my words and song.

Though my voice isn't what you would call beautiful, each melody I bleed makes me whole.

The ability to wiggle my toes, and and twinkle my eyes.

Blink and a wink to let go of my cries.

Cries that then make my mind scream, IM ALIVE!!

I may not be beautiful to you.

But my mirror digs deeper then my skin.

My mind, my soul, and intellect makes me divine.

Makes my body and my sensations intertwine.

My imperfection makes me weak, quite speechless.

Sexy is my mind, beauty is my soul.

I admire the ability to love my wrongs and turn them right.

don't let your past define you .....

Some say the past is who we are as it helps to define us, but I believe the past shouldn’t be what defines us but what guides us and propels us towards a better tomorrow/future. In that if something didn’t work, again I would not say; ‘count your losses’ but I would say my friend “take your winnings and all the worth while gains you have salvaged and move on! Do not try to dwell in the past ‘wondering what if’ as doing so you can end up loosing out on future prospects!

Here I will dispense some advice my friend stop torturing yourself and being reckless with your heart why seek to dwell on what ‘was?’ Understand that people come and people go, such broken past and the present/future are incompatible, and so if introduced they can never get along, they will evidently collide; and when everything comes crumbling it might just be too late. So just take all the worth while charms from the haunting of your past and move on giving the future a fair chance to happen, do not allow the ghost of your past to have power over you, DO NOT ALLOW THE SPIRIT OF YOUR PAST TO DICTATE YOUR FUTURE!!!

Accept certain truths the past is not ‘what should be’ or ‘what should have been’ it as already happened hence GONE!!! It really didn’t work for a valid reason, so get on with your life/lives and stop dwelling in the past. Stop toying with life’s natural cycle by living your life in reverse by constantly delving into the past. INSTEAD TRY LIVING, APPRECIATING AND DEDICATING YOUR ‘PRECIOUS TIME’ TO THE PRESENT, HELPING TO SHAPE YOURSELF A FAVOURABLE FUTURE!!! As while the past may have influenced the present, you are responsible for the future!

THANK YOU GOD ...

Thank You, God, for dreams come true.
Fulfilling a dream and accomplishing a goal have their own rewards. It is often the journey to the fulfillment and accomplishment, however, that satisfies the yearning to learn more and to expand one's horizons.
Whatever journey I am on today, I enjoy every moment of it. Every turning point is a change of direction that enriches my experiences.
I thank God for everything--every lesson learned, every dream come true. I am making the most of my time and my efforts. I give back to God by contributing my creativity and skills, my ideas and time, to enhance the lives of others.

AMEN

GOD IS MY...

GOD IS MY WAKING UP
MY GOING OUT
MY COMING IN
MY LYING DOWN
MY EVERYTHING


MY ALPHA AND OMEGA
MY SUNRISE AND MY SUNSET
GOD IS MY HEART
MY BEGINING AND MY END
MY SOULMATE AND MY ONE TRUE FRIEND